realize the womanhood...

I read about THE EVOLVED WOMAN at www.raresparks.blogspot.com
It said a lot about the different categories of urban 21st century women. While writing a comment on it... I was forced to write on this much debated womanhood-- >>motherhood.

The journey starts when she finds that crimson spot. The first step towards being a woman…every girl goes thru it and every one remembers the finest details of that day. It’s a BIG event in her life. Of course it has to be!! After all that makes her better gifted than men… with the power of holding, nurturing and delivering a new life. This transition from a girl towards womanhood is something which all girls look forward to… they experience it too…’coz this is important for her to complete her journey of WOMANHOOD – THE GIFT given by NATURE

It’s a whole new experience for her with lots of apprehensions... lots of unfolded truths… lots of excitement…and a kind of bewildering relief. Yeah bewildering relief … that’s what it is .The nature helps her to enter all the stages of womanhood, so that she can feel what she is ie more loved or the more rewarding child of GOD.
When she gets used to this first phase for a few years, she steps into another zone where she looks forward for her soul mate. When she finds him and she decides to surrender herself to him, the same kind of feelings ---lots of apprehensions... lots of unfolded truths… lots of excitement…and a kind of bewildering relief. .. surround her for the second time. That’s another unforgettable moment in a woman’s life.

By now she has completed half her journey of womanhood.. Now when she holds that lil life in her Gifted Womb...that’s the ULTIMATE EXPERIENCE. That completes her as a woman. Swear by all the LOVE on Earth… Just a woman can feel and none can explain that joy and bliss. This GIFT of Nature is something that all women must take and feel. No words ..no experience talks.. no videos.. no documentaries… nothing can substitute this feel. U have to experience it yourself!!! Believe me...its worth accepting THIS GREAT GIFT as it leads you to another world –the world of Motherhood. Here those feelings--- lots of apprehensions... lots of unfolded truths… lots of excitement…and a kind of bewildering relief… again show their combined upshot. So, what does that mean?? But obvious... this is another leap into the wonders of the GIFT.
Now those nine months of holding a life; weaving countless dreams associated wid it; waiting for it to show up in the world ..and the world to receive another individual who has made u a channel for that ingress. Hmm.. God must be too impressed by the female gender that he decided to give these unstinted smiles to her !! there’s a complete changeover in the personality of a woman by the end of this stage whether she wants it or not… that’s a change towards motherhood … nature takes her towards it.
Now comes the choice of a woman to really take or not take the elixir of the GIFT . If she’s too tired by now to experience those combined feelings of --lots of apprehensions... lots of unfolded truths… lots of excitement…and a kind of bewildering relief; she would try to escape the venture of Motherhood. The others who feel that the journey so far had been exciting and this is the time to taste the elixir of womanhood (in other words the motherhood!!) would continue enjoying the changing phases of the life. She knows she’s losing on the other part of herself…but still continues… for the bond of true Love. She gives the whole of herself to the lil life just arrived. Here somehow the role of a woman diminishes and a mother takes over. Slowly she gets so engrossed in the motherhood that she leaves behind the woman in her. All this is so addictive that u feel like heavens being a part of it.
Now here comes the turning point in her life!! The child is independent and she’s helped him to become an individual. This puts an end to the natural journey of a woman as a gizmo for bringing a new life in this world…
The final stage that is common to men and women comes ie finding the ultimate goal of life… finding who I am…and progress towards fulfilling the motive of ur being here.
but alas! All this just not comes naturally as other phases had been. Here U have to work out all by yourself ..all for yourself. U have to make an effort to rediscover urself..rediscover the lost woman in u …rediscover the lost Identity… rediscover the U.U have to come out of being just a mother…
Once u’re done and back to life as an individual, believe me u’ll feel like a winner with that winning smile on ur face… u have tasted the elixir of womanhood at the right time.U have felt the best of both worlds… U have enjoyed those moments that come only once in the journey of womanhood. Now u’ve LIVED the womanhood completely.
If u're a girl ..u must go wid the nature and see the difference. don just limit urself in competing wid men..thats something that can be done anytime, anywhere..thats just a lil part of urself... u don deserve to miss out on the very celebrations of being a woman !!!
If u’re still on the journey towards being a complete woman ,I really wish U all the best in life and genuinely request u to be a complete mother…. Deliver… feed… help it grow n express… be wid it completely till it smiles and realizes that he has his own identity. BE different than other species as u’re far superior to them..u can help ur child being a confident individual.
If u’re one of those complete women, I CONGRATULATE U straight from my heart!!